A guide to better sex: a sexual improvement guide

A uide to etter ex G B S ?? ? A sexual improvement manual by: Dennis E. Adonis ?? A Guide to Better Sex Copyright © January 2013 by Dennis E. Adonis All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the publisher, except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and certain other noncommercial uses permitted by copyright law. For permission requests, write to the publisher, at the address below. First Published - January 2013 By: Good Advice Publishing / True Events Media 17146 NE Sandy Blvd Portland OREGON 97230, USA Author’s Information: info@dennisadonis.com This book is strictly for readers 18 years and older. According to the Penguin Atlas of Sexual Behaviour, roughly 240 million people worldwide have sex every day; - which denotes that at least 10 million people are having sex every hour. If calculated further, this means that at least 167,000 people are getting some good sex this very minute. However, only 52% of them are currently enjoying it, while the other 48 percent are now craving that their sexual encounter could have been much improved. As such, this book intends to help provide some key guidance for those 115 million daily disappointed men and women, in a bid to make their sexual experience with their partners much better the next time around. A first word from the Author of this book . Why do people have sex? Sex is probably one of the most satisfying emotional forms of physical gratification known to exist between the opposite genders of the human race. It can be dispensed in many different forms, characteristics, circumstances and environments; whether the two performers are deaf and dumb, or speak opposing tongues. Therefore it not surprising to know, that sex is arguably the most seek-out topic on the internet, and the most read literature amongst all adult age groups worldwide. The very fact that you have assumingly noted the nature of this book and is delving into its pages so eagerly, is testimony that you are equally interested in the inner workings of sex, just like the millions of others who have expressed an avid interest and curiosity about this fascinating subject matter. Nonetheless, for your information, I am not a sexual therapist, psychologist, relationship adviser, sexual satisfaction counselor or an adviser on sexual issues. I had simply compiled this book purely from my own personal sexual experiences, intense research, data from professional sex advisers, and a 10 month online interview with 1,514 women and men who were willing to share their deepest sexual insights with me, mostly via internet forums. I had also had several face to face casual conversations with at least 48 willing individuals, hailing from different cultures and ethnicity groups, including housewives, working professionals, bar girls, and escorts, just to label a few. Hence I am sure that I was able to put together some reliable therapy, answers and workable advices that would be nothing less than perfect for those who seek to sexually educate themselves. That aside, (prior to becoming a family man) I had personally indulged myself sexually (in safety) with well over a hundred willing women back in my sex-mongering days. These women were of different adult age range, physical appearance, career, economic class, relationship status, financial status, cultural backgrounds, ethnicity, beliefs, IQ’s and affiliations, and hailing from at least a dozen countries on our planet. And if voluminous experience is something that you consider adequate, then I can safely say that I am definitely in a very well-advantaged position to professionally discuss sexual satisfaction and all the other elements that comes with it. So, there is no doubt that you will enjoy every aspect of this book, providing that you continue to pay appropriate attention to its contents. Anyway, ….. let’s not be flattered or dazed by my point of experience or persuasion for you to read on. We should just get giddy and move on with the subject matter hereafter; - Now, ……… we all know that the primary evolutionary reason for sex, is to facilitate reproduction of our own kind. But from my knowledge and I am sure, from your perception, people become sexually involve for a long list of other reasons. In most instances, people indulge in sex for mutual pleasure, emotional satisfaction, spousal obligations, self-gratification, monetary rewards, and to alleviate insecurity. But practically, most people engage in sexual activity because of the pleasures they derive from the activity, in which the most intensified pleasure is gained through orgasm. Most commonly, people engage in sexual activity with a person to whom they are sexually attracted; but at times, a person may engage in a sexual activity solely for the sexual pleasure of the partner, such as because of an obligation they may have to the partner or because of love, sympathy or pity they may feel for the partner. Also, a person may engage in sexual activity for purely monetary considerations, or to obtain some advantage from either the partner or the activity. A just-married and childless couple may, for example, engage in sexual intercourse with the objective of conception. Other people engage in sex because they hate each other. This occurs between two people who strongly dislike or annoy each other, and is known as hate sex. It is related to the psychological theory that opposition between two people can heighten sexual tension, attraction and interest. But whatever everyone’s reason may be, we would agree that the list can be concentrated on not more than four or five major reasons, why people have sex. However, this book goes way beyond their reasons, and is more intended to groom you into making your sex life much more enjoyable. Considering the importance of sexual intercourse itself to happiness, contentment, and permanence in a relationship (or marriage), there is no reason for anyone to feel timid, embarrassed, or guilty about their quest to learn more through this book, about this fascinating physical sensation that often gratifies us. So, if you want to make your sexual encounters much more pleasurable and exciting, it would be advisable that you simply read on. Dennis E. Adonis Author Table of Contents ??Introduction: The evolution of sex Page: 001 ??A better understanding of sex today Page: 004 ??The importance and benefits of sex Page: 006 ??The ideal sex partner Page: 009 ??Preparing for good sex Page: 020 ??Pre-sex safety practices Page: 028 ??Analyze and know your partner Page: 031 ??Dealing with fetishes and toys Page: 033 ??Pre-environmental factors Page: 039 ??Appearance and lingerie Page: 040 ??Sex, alcohol and drugs Page: 041 ??Getting into the mood: Foreplay Page: 044 ?? Getting into action: First strike Page: 057 ??Sex positions we love Page: 061 ??Making it sweeter: complimentary Page: 103 ??Explicit positions we love Page: 113 ??Sex positions for specific purposes Page: 121 ?? Unconventional sex practices Page: 137 ??Things affecting sexual performance Page: 147 ??Where to get help Page: 154 ??Author’s conclusion Page: 155